This episode is a pause from the heavy subjects we’ve covered over the last few weeks.
In Episode 20 of Altars & Ashes, we slow down and talk honestly about formation, specifically, the books that didn’t just inform us, but worked on us. The books that corrected us, unsettled us, cost us something, and quietly reshaped how we live.
These are not necessarily our favorite books. They’re the ones that left a mark.
We frame the conversation around a simple conviction: formation matters more than consumption. Reading is not about collecting ideas or signaling intelligence, it’s about being acted upon. Some books don’t just add knowledge; they demand repentance, patience, courage, or endurance.
To keep the conversation grounded, we move through seven “conversation lanes”:
Books that changed how we see God
Books that corrected distorted theology, reframed suffering, or made God’s sovereignty feel weighty and real rather than abstract.Books that changed how we see the world
Works that made neutrality impossible, collapsed the false divide between faith and “real life,” and sharpened our awareness of truth, power, and narrative control.Books that forced us to rethink history
Books that exposed inherited myths, dismantled false shame, and helped us recover gratitude for the past instead of embarrassment.Books that changed how we see ourselves as men
Not hype or bravado—but books that clarified responsibility, stripped excuses, and sobered us into weight-bearing maturity.Books that made us feel the weight of life
Often fiction or story—books that linger for years, deepen emotional gravity, and teach us to honor endurance over intensity.Books that formed the mind
Works that reshaped how we think about thinking, education, attention, and the long interior work that precedes action.Books that changed how we actually live day to day
Books that tied formation to habits, obedience, repetition, and sustainable rhythms—helping us stop waiting on motivation and start practicing faithfulness.
Throughout the episode, we return to one guiding question:
“What did this book change about how I actually live?”
As the conversation comes together, a few themes emerge clearly:
formation is slow, truth is embodied, and faithfulness compounds over time.
We close not with a call to action, but with an invitation to reflection:
What book has God used to change you—and what did it cost you?
This episode isn’t about what you should read next.
It’s about remembering how God has used words, stories, and ideas to shape real lives, quietly, patiently, over years.
